(Audio/Interview) Bernie Fine's wife though.... Admits to affair with accuser and more..

 I have questions though...




Now mind you I am sympathetic to the things that happened when he was younger. So I am NOT QUESTIONING THAT. The part that I am questioning is this...

THE LOAN:




"When he gave you the money, what does he want for that? He wants you to grab him or he wanted to do you?" -Mrs. Fine

"He wanted to do me. He wanted me to touch him, too. He tried to make me touch him a couple of times. He'd grab my hand, and then I'd pull away, and then he'd put me in your bed, and then you know, put me down, and I'd try to go away, and he'd put his arm on top of my chest. He goes, 'If you want this money, you'll stay right here,' " - Davis



"Right. Right ... ,"  "He just has a nasty attitude, because he didn't get his money, nor did he get what he wanted. He didn't get ... " - Laurie Fine


"It's not about the money." - Davis


 "It's about the d—-. I know that. So you're — I'm just telling you for your own good, you're better off just staying away from him. - Laurie Fine


I think you know what I am getting at.... I mean AT THAT POINT, you know things are 'wrong' correct? I mean am I missing something? Yeah..you CAN'T blame the victim for the INITIAL ABUSE. That is CRYSTAL CLEAR. I just find this part VERY INTERESTING.. That's just me though.

As for Bernie, he has an issue or two. I mean the young man was knocking off HIS WIFE AND HE DIDN'T CARE UNLESS AS LONG AS HE COULD TOUCH SAID PERSON WHO WAS KNOCKING OFF HIS WIFE HIMSELF...Very messed up situation all the way around. 


As for Laurie, I don't know what to say about her. I mean, she KNEW HER HUSBAND WAS OFF and felt bad enough about it to the point that she broke off one of the boys he was molesting. Almost like she was 'making up for it' or something. Can't imagine being in her shoes.

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Life, Love & Sinn aka @SinnamonLove: The Miseducation Of Amber Cole | The Well Versed

Life, Love & Sinn: The Miseducation Of Amber Cole | The Well Versed


I'mma give you a piece of what she wrote.... Go read the rest of it at the link...



Oh and for you 'high horse/but low on the totem pole' cats who don't want a 'porn star' to tell you anything, she sounds better educated than you and your favorite lil 'smart blogger/favorite tweeter'. Word she does...





Reading the story of Amber Cole through bloggers and social media sites I’m glad I missed the masses of people berating this young girl for her sexual exploration and making poor decisions with her heart because of one reason… I too was miseducated. The extent of sex education for most young women of color at home is “don’t get pregnant,” while at school its “these are the STDs you can catch.” I remember skipping school to go to Planned Parenthood when I thought I was pregnant by a boyfriend in high school, (turned out I had ovarian cysts instead.) Up until I overheard an older sister and her friends discussing the physical sensation of orgasms, I had been terrified that I had urinated on my partner when I ejaculated. I knew that “16 could get you 20,” but was still flattered by the attention of the good looking older boys with cars, jobs and money… despite having both a stepfather at home and my biological father that both spoiled me rotten. I was terrified of the idea of my boyfriend “going down” on me and thought “giving head” was something only White girls did.



At 16, a boyfriend broke up with me because I wouldn’t give him a blow job and wouldn’t engage in anal sex only to have him come to a video store signing in North Carolina shocked that I had grown up to be, well, Me. But that was the 80s and 90s… before I became a mother, before I went to college, before I met my first love and long before porn. I think back to that same boyfriend at 16 that recorded the sound of us having sex with his dual cassette boom box, (while Janet Jackson’s “Someday is Tonight” played on the other side,) and giggling at the thought of his being able to listen to it later when he was alone. To this day, he still has that tape. To this day, its still considered child porn.



This is not intended to be a condemnation on the persecution and criminalization of consensual sex between teens. I’m not going to get into a discussion of single parent households, fatherlessness and young girls seeking attention or lack of positive role models in the media for young people to follow. I don’t know Amber Cole, her family or her background and I certainly can’t make any assumptions as to what was going through her head when she decided to do whatever “he” wanted in order to win him back. To say that it was despicable how adults attacked this young girl online, to the point of their being rumors of her suicide is indeed an understatement yet – I’m not surprised.



For as long as I could remember, despite the lack of appropriate sex education, I always heard grown ups talk about “fast tail little girls” that flirted too much, wore short skirts or were just victims of their early physical development. No one ever chastises the men for their lecherous looks and inappropriate advances, but we certainly denigrate the girls to harlots rather quickly. What does bother me the most is that even in this day and age, we continue to perpetuate the cycle of misinformation or a lack of appropriate sex education for teens and young adults, yet punish them socially and criminally for their activities. In some states, a 19-year-old can be punished for up to 10 years for consensual sex with a 16-year-old and yet, in talking to my 18-year-old son I’ve found that not once was appropriate ages of sex partners or statutory rape covered in any of his sex ed classes in elementary, middle school or high school. Sex education continues to be limited to reproduction and disease, with limited information about available services for birth control, abortion, incest or sexual abuse.



In light of the Amber Cole Incident and the questions that came later from my 14-year-old currently taking sex ed, I’ve found that traditional sex education continues to stagnate and doesn’t include information on potential repercussions that sexting or consensual filming of sex acts between minors can have on the futures (legally, academically and socially,) of all parties involved. Its not 100% the schools fault. Educators are crippled by fear from parents that are blinded by their spiritual or moral beliefs on what they do and don’t want their children to be taught. Teenagers continue to wear purity rings and yet engage in risky sexual behaviors such as anal and oral sex in order to maintain their virginity. Boys are still allowed to be boys and girls are still expected to be held to a higher standard… and as in the case of Amber Cole, at least 2 boys have now been arrested and the FBI is deciding whether to prosecute…



I have to wonder, did anyone ever have a discussion with Amber Cole about sex in public places or looking out for hidden cameras? Did anyone ever say to these boys that pornography is something produced for and by adults and is not something for children and teens to engage in? Did anyone ever stop to tell these young men that “you don’t have to lie to kick it,” and that sometimes, honesty will still allow them to find sexual satiation while lies will only leave a sea of broken, angry hearts behind?
It angers me that somewhere along the line, all 4 of these children involved have been failed – not just by their parents and their schools, but their communities at large. It seems no one sat this young lady down and explained to her that sometimes guys (and girls) will try to take advantage of her sexuality and to be cautious of who you give you heart to. I’m angry because I see Amber Cole – yet another young woman that was under the mistaken belief that sex and love are synonymous – was willing to do anything for the “man” she loves. I wish that we would stop limiting sex education to bible verses and disease and start giving these young women back their power.



Its time for real world sex education; masturbation, condom use, risky sexual behavior, teen sex laws and consequences outside of STDs and teen pregnancy MUST be included in our discussions of sex with our kids. Parents have to stop thinking that conversations of teen sex will encourage promiscuity. When my oldest daughter went away to college with her boyfriend, I had a discussion with her about birth control. Today, at 19, they have now been together 5 years and are both in their 2nd year of college at the same school and there aren’t any babies on the way. When my youngest got ready to start high school I had a frank discussion with her about boys using a girl’s sexuality to their advantage for their own sexual exploration, and encouraged her to make sure when she is ready that her sexual exploration is on her terms and no one else’s. These are the conversations we should be having with our children.




People continue to act as though the Boogie-Man is some creepy old guy that lives in a house around the corner that everyone knows not to go to his house on Halloween… but what about the predator right in your child’s classroom, or the playground, or on the phone, cupcaking with them late at night? Throughout the late 90s, talk show television and soap operas brought to light the subject of teen domestic violence. I can only hope that the Miseducation of Amber Cole brings to light the subject of teen sex abuse and misconduct and allows us to have more frank, open conversations with our children. Sex is on every television show they watch and in every song on the radio that they listen to. If songs like Miguel’s “Quickie” can be played on the radio, how can you not explain to your children what a quickie is if you hear them playing it or humming along? How can you not sit through an episode of Family Guy, American Dad, South Park or Tosh 2.0 with your kids so you can inquire what they know about the subject matter they are laughing at? Sometimes, being a parent isn’t comfortable but you still have an obligation to fulfilling your children’s needs. If we don’t educate our kids, the streets will continue to do so… and Amber Cole won’t be the last young Black woman exploited and these three Black boys won’t be the last to be criminalized as a result.

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Duke female student does her HONORS THESIS ON F*CKING MEMBERS OF THE BASEBALL, TENNIS AND LACROSSE TEAM...

I mean it is an HONORS thesis so one can probably conclude (If they are smart that is..) her schooling was ALREADY being paid for. So the whole 'Her parents are probably gonna be pissed because they spent their hard earned money on her....' argument is probably mute from the DOOR. I know this will be so unsettling for some, especially with daughters but the WAY she laid this shit out is COMICAL. I am sorry. Oh and I HAVE DAUGHTERS so yeah..She is in college. Again, she is an HONORS student so her intelligence is not in question...I thought the shit was brilliant personally. That's just me though. I have a WARPED sense of humor though. I will admit that. I am also not a resident of the heavily populated towns of "Denial", "DoasIsaynotasIdoohletmedissyoufornotbeingperfect", or my favorite town 'Idoshitbutitsdifferentcauseitsme'I mean, dudes do this shit all the time and it is 'hilarious' right? Why not a girl? Fuck it....


Normally, I read these things, chuckle and wait for everyone else to discover them in mass....This PART RIGHT HERE prompted me to share though..


Edit: Here is a link that is EASIER to read and requires less clicking on. It has the pics blurred though (rightfully so which is why I didn't post any of 'em up) and the names crossed out a a bit.




http://jezebel.com/5652114/college-girls-power-point-fuck-list-goes-viral

This was enough for me to post it.....Read the rest here...I can't put them all up..Well...I could but I am not...

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Yes, I saw it. Ben Roethlisberger.....Interview..

(Steps aside)


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Probably the MOST important part of the whole Kendra sextape thing to me..

"Kendra Wilkinson's sex tape is scheduled to be released to record-setting preorders Wednesday and that has made her marriage the subject of much scrutiny.


Link courtesy of radaronline:

"After all, not every husband would accept having the world see his wife intimate with another man.

PHOTOS: Sex Tape Celebs

But a close friend of Kendra and Hank Baskett told RadarOnline.com exclusively that the sex tape has not adversely affected their marriage. "This happened when she was young. He already knew about this. She told him about this before they got married,” the friend said.

HONEYMOON PHOTOS: Kendra Wilkinson Is A Pregnant Bikini Bride

"She was young and was in love with her boyfriend and thought she was going to marry him and it just didn't turn out that way."

The friend stressed that Hank loves Kendra and is fully aware about her past.."




If you don't know why I think this is important, I can't help you. I would like to help you understand why this a big deal but it is probably not in the cards this go around. Perhaps one day. You aren't ready for that kind of truth yet. The only truth you deal with is a set of rules set forth by some fictional 'code of conduct book' that exists for those in movies, songs and fictional tales. You are probably still running around doing whatever it is you want to whomever you want, wanting it to be overlooked 'cause it is YOU and handing out Scarlett Letters to people who do as you do. I can't change your mind so I won't try. Good luck with all of that. To you I say this simple phrase....

I wish you all the success in the World and I will even turn a blind eye to your failures. -My Grandmother (and probably T.I's grandmother too)

If you do know why this would be important, hats off to you. Simple as that. You know what a real commitment means and what it means to 'know your spouse'. What it means not to give a shit what people who ultimately don't care about you think anyway. Now in no way does this make you less intelligent or any of that 'cause you know and understand that 'being human' is par for the course. Especially when you were younger. You haven't forgotten the things that you have partaken in and you don't judge people in that light lest you be judged with that same light....


But...but...she is getting paid for it...Which means she isn't shit..-You

Pipe down with that self righteous bullshit. Tape was gonna come out regardless. See Pam Anderson and her shit. She sued. It still came out. We still all saw it then she got her money. Why go through all of that? Pay me now. You are gonna release it anyway in some fashion. She is not an idiot is all that is to me. Pay me before you tie me up in court for years and whittle away at my settlement. I did all the work afterall.@ my take on the whole 'got paid for it' thing.

Well Mr.Blogger, what was your take on it when the news broke? Thought you would never ask....Here ya go...

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I am guessing Sarah Palin was supposed to be 'helping' John McCain.

He might be better off recruiting the help of his enemies..

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Michael Steele and his money spree.

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I see I am going to have to speak on it myself...Ben Roesthlisberger

My peoples' site (Steelergurl)is having technical difficulties so I will give my opinions on the Ben situation here. Especially since other details have come out now.

As the title of her blog post suggested, I think the man might need some new boys. I do understand his need for new (insert your own word for it) and the undying quench that his celebrity must put on him to go pursue it. That said, you have to watch where you fish as even though the gals might be legal, they may not be 'legal in the head', if you know what I mean. He needs to remember not only who he is but WHAT he is. Of course there are three sides to this thing. His. Hers. The truth. I hear there were cameras there but the incident took place in the bathroom where no cameras are allowed.

His side:

It has been said that they girls didn't 'know who he was' until told. I assume that was put out there to say 'there were no motives' or something. WRONG!- Charlie Murphy. He is famous, giving out free drinks and locked down their local watering hole. He must be SOMEBODY TO DO THAT. If he is 'somebody' then the motive doesn't have to be he is 'Ben from the Steelers' but rather he is SOMEBODY WITH CASH. Lets just get that outta the way. Well, this is twice you say? It is. Actually, with the way he goes out, he has a pretty low number. Athletes get sued/attempted charges all the time actually. It is just now, it is news. It wasn't news before.

Her side: He did it. The end. Nothing more to say. She says he did so something musta happened.

The truth: He was in a college town bar with girls who couldn't drink. He has a pending civil suit and this is the second time in as many years in the off season that a situation like this has come up in some fashion (In fairness, the Lake Tahoe incident didn't 'happen' last year, it was just bought up last year.) Most common folks love to cheer athletes on but don't like them as people. The press is gonna have a field day. He has hired a high price lawyer this time around so that means that he means business too. The girl is 20 years old and probably (unless GA has some laws I don't know about) and drinks were being served.

Oh you thought I was going to say he did or didn't do it? I wish the hell I would do that.... I wasn't there. Neither were you. All I know is that it sounds like he needs to be chaperoned or something. Some better boys, some contracts for these gals to sign or something. As well as a good video camera of his own. I'd be taping acts. Not to leak 'em but just so you couldn't pull shit like this. I mean I could tell him to control his nuts but who am I to tell him that? He is a young man. I don't take issue with it. I do think he should be more 'selective' though. My whole timeline was offering him and a certain fallen R&B star their services as opposed to have what has happened to them both this weekend.

Oh and one more thing. Those of you screaming for GODdell to do something? He can't unless he likes getting the NFL sued himself. No charges have been filed and on top of that what 'pattern of behavior' would you be suspending him for? What would you call it? You gonna suspend/reprimand/discipline for going out when no one has died/been charged/ or anything? Yeah, good luck with that one...

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Dear 'hot' school teachers:

When you send sexual pictures to a horny 15 year old, kiss him in the mouth and/or basically have sex with him, he is going to tell SOMEONE. You see, they don't understand that 'someone' is eventually going to tell. Whether it be outta sheer naive thoughts or out of spite because you aren't showing them the same attention. Kids are not really as dumb as we make them out in this particular aspect. This is not 1970/80/90 when it was a fantasy and no one was telling. Yes, we realize male teachers have been having sex with their students for years and you have probably too. Still and all, it is not going to get overlooked. This isn't the movies where it is glorified and revered. These kids are gonna tell. It would behoove you not to take said pictures at all and to certainly limit your contact if you are going to engage in such risky behavior. If you are going to do it, the electronic trail? Don't leave it. It is too easy right now.

Now for all of you perfect people out there, I do understand that 'she shouldn't be doing it." However, much like your imperfect and law breaking ass (we all break the law in some capacity that endangers/affects people's lives at some point in our lives....speeding...driving while having had too much to drink...you get the picture.), it is CLEAR that merely suggesting alone 'abstaining' isn't working. As we keep having a crop of young and older (this particular teacher is 42 and probably BEEN KNOCKING OFF STUDENTS.) who engage in this behavior. So to say 'Just don't do it..." is clearly not enough. So I am trying a different approach. Please don't stop with your 'Just don't do it campaign' though. Together, maybe we can put a dent in it. ( I was sincere about not stopping too. Maybe that pressure will be enough for some..)

I am not going to call her out of her name or no shit like that. I am even going to skip over the prerequisite 'What the fuck is going on?" or the "Damm, can't she get some grown up dick?" comments and such. I will leave all of that up to ya'll. I am just moving the story forward. Maybe it will help someone. On either side of the fence. Maybe you have a young child in school. Maybe you are a teacher. Maybe you know a teacher. (I happen to know SEVERAL of my followers fit these categories so...)

Why am I taking this particular approach to it? Due to the double standards that exist and the way that people don't want to own up to the fact that there is more than one side of this that needs to be discussed. That is why. I don't get as 'angry' as most do when women are allowed to openly lust over young boys but it does bother me that it isn't looked at as unsettling as it is when a dude does it. Shit like this here is proof SOMETHING COMES OF THIS LUSTING. Unlike before when with one dismissive wave, it is was thought of as 'just thoughts that woman can easily control unlike men'. It is clear that is not the case now isn't it?

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-6270620-504083.html

LONDONDERRY, N.H. (CBS/WBZ) Perhaps New Hampshire high school teacher Melinda Dennehy missed the orientation session when they explained that sending your naked photos to a student is sort of a bad idea.

Photo: Melinda Dennehy.

Police say the 41-year-old English teacher sent four sexy shots of herself to a 15-year-old male student at Londonderry High School. The student, it seems, thought that was pretty nifty. Police say he forwarded the images to his friends.

According to police documents, the pictures were sent two months ago. Investigators say they obtained a copy of one of the photos and co-workers identified Dennehy.

The teen told police that Dennehy had "continuously sent him text messages," some of which were sexually explicit. He also claimed that she "kissed him twice on two separate occasions" in a classroom at school.

Dennehy, of Hampstead, turned herself in to Londonderry police Friday. She is charged with one felony count of indecent exposure. Hampstead is 30 miles northwest from Concord.

The mother of two has since been freed on bail, but was ordered to stay away from anyone under 16. Police do not know of any other victims.

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Oh REALLY now? @ Brooklyn teachers...

Ya'll couldn't wait until you got home? Really? C'mon son!- Ed Lover..What's the big deal though? They aren't 'billionaires' so I guess we won't be talking about them too much huh? They are only ACTUALLY TEACHING KIDS...not being role models for them. No biggie. As you were... smh"



http://www.nydailynews.com/news/2009/12/09/2009-12-09_teachers_pet__each_other_naked_lust_was_part_of_their_lesson_plan_at_high_school.html

Who's hot for teacher? Looks like the other teacher.

Two female Romance language instructors were tossed out of their Brooklyn high school after being caught "undressed" in an empty classroom, sources told the Daily News Tuesday.

Students at James Madison High School in Midwood were watching a talent show in the auditorium while Alini Brito and Cindy Mauro were speaking the international language of love, sources said.

A janitor stumbled on French teacher Mauro, 33, and Brito, 29, a married Spanish instructor, and tattled to school officials on Nov. 20.

Both tenured teachers were removed from the classroom and sent to Education Department "rubber rooms" while they're investigated for misconduct, sources said.

The episode is the talk of the school. Students even set up a Facebook group to discuss the shenanigans - and it already has more than 500 fans.

"Now you guys wished we installed cameras in our classrooms after all hmm?" wrote one student.

Janitor Robert Colantuoni refused to comment Tuesday. "I can't talk about it, I'm sorry," he said.

Brito's husband, reached by phone, said he was unaware of the accusations, but denied them.

"The school district has not informed my wife of these allegations and they are untrue," he said.

Students said both teachers were popular.

"[Ms. Mauro] was pretty fun," said junior Eddie Ramirez, 18.

"She dressed like a teenage girl - she'd wear low-cut tops, shorts, three-quarter length jeans. She was kinda sexy.

"You could see that she was the kind of person who would flirt."

Students said Mauro dyed some of her hair pink over the summer and has an array of sexy tattoos: a sun on her lower back, a flower on her leg, and a star on her foot.

Brito opted for more demure attire.

"She's pretty," said one 17-year-old who took French with her.

"Mrs. Brito was good-looking. Oh, yeah!"

A 16-year-old sophomore said Brito was a teacher students would come to with problems.

"She usually dresses elegant, looks smart," he said. "She's good-looking. And she was friendly, not flirty, just friendly."

Students said gossip about the romp was flying through the school, where staff members were trying to keep a lid on it.

"The teachers don't even want you to bring it up because they say they'll get in trouble if we're talking about it in class," Eddie Ramirez said.

"They just say, 'Let it go.'"

Teachers and administrators at James Madison would not comment yesterday, but the Education Department confirmed the probe.

"There was an incident in the evening when there was a school performance," department spokeswoman Margie Feinberg said.

"The two teachers have been reassigned pending the outcome of [an Education Department] investigation."



Oh it gets even better? Wow...





There are more sexy shenanigans at Brooklyn's Horndog High.

The day after the Daily News reported that two James Madison High School language teachers were busted "undressed" in an empty classroom, sources said a third educator is being investigated for getting too personal with a student.

Social studies instructor Allison Musacchio is under investigation for having an inappropriate relationship with a male student, sources said.

It is the second scandal in as many days to rock the Midwood school where New York Sen. Chuck Schumer and Major League ballplayer Frank Torre once walked the halls.

School sources said they learned of Musacchio's alleged antics in March, after a female James Madison student saw her ex-boyfriend's phone number on the tenured teacher's cell phone.

Officials found more than 200 texts and calls between the teacher and the male pupil and yanked her from the classroom, sources said. They said the amount of contact was inappropriate.

Musacchio, 31, was also investigated for having a fling with a former student but the probe was dropped because the teen was of legal age and no longer at the school, school sources said.

Attempts to reach Musacchio at her home were unsuccessful Wednesday, but she has told a neighbor the allegations were untrue.

"She said, 'Absolutely not,'" the neighbor said. "She said, 'Are you crazy? With my Greek background, I would never do something like that. I have morals and respect.'"

A man who identified himself as Musacchio's boyfriend said he was unaware of the allegations.

"I try to stay out of her business. I just know she's a teacher here in Brooklyn," he said. "She's a good person, this is a total shock to me.

"She keeps herself to herself."

Parents, teachers and pupils were reeling Wednesday after The News revealed that a janitor allegedly caught French teacher Cindy Mauro, 33, and Spanish instructor Alini Brito, 29, disrobed in a classroom while students were attending an annual singing and dancing competition on Nov. 20.

In a bizarre meeting of scandals, Musacchio is a member of a Facebook group set up by students wanting to talk about the language teachers' purported romance.

Lawyers for the pair said they "categorically deny the salacious allegations."

"They are both exemplary teachers whose reputations and careers are being irreparably harmed by unfounded rumors and innuendo," a statement said.

"They intend to vigorously address these allegations in the proper forum."

Musacchio, Mauro and Brito have been pulled from classrooms and sent to "rubber rooms" while their cases are investigated. Education officials could not say if they were in the same location.

"The school heard about allegations about employee misconduct, reassigned the teacher and referred the matter to the [Special Commissioner of Investigation]," education department spokeswoman Margie Feinberg said of Musacchio.

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