When you send sexual pictures to a horny 15 year old, kiss him in the mouth and/or basically have sex with him, he is going to tell SOMEONE. You see, they don't understand that 'someone' is eventually going to tell. Whether it be outta sheer naive thoughts or out of spite because you aren't showing them the same attention. Kids are not really as dumb as we make them out in this particular aspect. This is not 1970/80/90 when it was a fantasy and no one was telling. Yes, we realize male teachers have been having sex with their students for years and you have probably too. Still and all, it is not going to get overlooked. This isn't the movies where it is glorified and revered. These kids are gonna tell. It would behoove you not to take said pictures at all and to certainly limit your contact if you are going to engage in such risky behavior. If you are going to do it, the electronic trail? Don't leave it. It is too easy right now.
Now for all of you perfect people out there, I do understand that 'she shouldn't be doing it." However, much like your imperfect and law breaking ass (we all break the law in some capacity that endangers/affects people's lives at some point in our lives....speeding...driving while having had too much to drink...you get the picture.), it is CLEAR that merely suggesting alone 'abstaining' isn't working. As we keep having a crop of young and older (this particular teacher is 42 and probably BEEN KNOCKING OFF STUDENTS.) who engage in this behavior. So to say 'Just don't do it..." is clearly not enough. So I am trying a different approach. Please don't stop with your 'Just don't do it campaign' though. Together, maybe we can put a dent in it. ( I was sincere about not stopping too. Maybe that pressure will be enough for some..)
I am not going to call her out of her name or no shit like that. I am even going to skip over the prerequisite 'What the fuck is going on?" or the "Damm, can't she get some grown up dick?" comments and such. I will leave all of that up to ya'll. I am just moving the story forward. Maybe it will help someone. On either side of the fence. Maybe you have a young child in school. Maybe you are a teacher. Maybe you know a teacher. (I happen to know SEVERAL of my followers fit these categories so...)
Why am I taking this particular approach to it? Due to the double standards that exist and the way that people don't want to own up to the fact that there is more than one side of this that needs to be discussed. That is why. I don't get as 'angry' as most do when women are allowed to openly lust over young boys but it does bother me that it isn't looked at as unsettling as it is when a dude does it. Shit like this here is proof SOMETHING COMES OF THIS LUSTING. Unlike before when with one dismissive wave, it is was thought of as 'just thoughts that woman can easily control unlike men'. It is clear that is not the case now isn't it?
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-6270620-504083.html
LONDONDERRY, N.H. (CBS/WBZ) Perhaps New Hampshire high school teacher Melinda Dennehy missed the orientation session when they explained that sending your naked photos to a student is sort of a bad idea.
Photo: Melinda Dennehy.
Police say the 41-year-old English teacher sent four sexy shots of herself to a 15-year-old male student at Londonderry High School. The student, it seems, thought that was pretty nifty. Police say he forwarded the images to his friends.
According to police documents, the pictures were sent two months ago. Investigators say they obtained a copy of one of the photos and co-workers identified Dennehy.
The teen told police that Dennehy had "continuously sent him text messages," some of which were sexually explicit. He also claimed that she "kissed him twice on two separate occasions" in a classroom at school.
Dennehy, of Hampstead, turned herself in to Londonderry police Friday. She is charged with one felony count of indecent exposure. Hampstead is 30 miles northwest from Concord.
The mother of two has since been freed on bail, but was ordered to stay away from anyone under 16. Police do not know of any other victims.
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