You should WATCH THE VIDEO. It touches on domestic abuse in a way that quite honestly, MOST OF US ARE FAMILIAR WITH. Not that one sided thing that the media or the movies are forced to show us on EITHER SIDE.
Showing posts with label Domestic Violence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Domestic Violence. Show all posts
(Words) Lane Kiflin, Pumping gas, Chris Brown and Rihanna and other musings...
So back in the days as Al Davis's whipping boy, EVERYONE FELT SO SORRY FOR POOR LANE KIFFIN. Now in his present position, ole Lane is making Al look like he might have been on to something.
Now, I have used the statement that Lane used (allegedly) about 'pumping gas' myself to motivate those around me. So the statement itself is not really that big of a deal to me. You don't make the right decision and yes, you just might end up doing nothing more than 'pumping gas in the middle of nowhere' or the other ole cliche' 'flipping burgers'. No problem. But what YOU CAN'T DO AS A PERSON IN LANE'S POSITION is, attach names of institutions to the statement or say it to a recruit. Maybe after they get into your 'fold' you can pop trash but not then. Not like he did. To boot, he said it to a program whose coach WILL REMEMBER that and use it as bulletin board material. Lane better hope that not ONE OF HIS KIDS EVER ENDS UP PUMPING GAS after leaving his programs (he will get fired/let go/whatever just like in Oakland at some point. They all do) He will NEVER HEAR THE END OF IT. lol
Free Tory Holt! You let Orlando Pace go. Go ahead and release Tory too.
Now it is a 'teaching moment.'?* Here we go again putting undue pressure on two people who still need help. It is a 'helping moment' for them. Are we going to help them? Well HARPO? I mean, I imagine that at some point, when this all blows over, they will come on the show. At least I hope so. I can only hope that it is an 'even' show. That's all that I ask.
Another 'let's get drunk and claim pride in something we really know nothing about' day coming up. Can't wait for the pictures. Personally, I plan on staying off of the road that day.
*It being 'Chris Brown and Rihanna's domestic violence situation btw.....
Now, I have used the statement that Lane used (allegedly) about 'pumping gas' myself to motivate those around me. So the statement itself is not really that big of a deal to me. You don't make the right decision and yes, you just might end up doing nothing more than 'pumping gas in the middle of nowhere' or the other ole cliche' 'flipping burgers'. No problem. But what YOU CAN'T DO AS A PERSON IN LANE'S POSITION is, attach names of institutions to the statement or say it to a recruit. Maybe after they get into your 'fold' you can pop trash but not then. Not like he did. To boot, he said it to a program whose coach WILL REMEMBER that and use it as bulletin board material. Lane better hope that not ONE OF HIS KIDS EVER ENDS UP PUMPING GAS after leaving his programs (he will get fired/let go/whatever just like in Oakland at some point. They all do) He will NEVER HEAR THE END OF IT. lol
Free Tory Holt! You let Orlando Pace go. Go ahead and release Tory too.
Now it is a 'teaching moment.'?* Here we go again putting undue pressure on two people who still need help. It is a 'helping moment' for them. Are we going to help them? Well HARPO? I mean, I imagine that at some point, when this all blows over, they will come on the show. At least I hope so. I can only hope that it is an 'even' show. That's all that I ask.
Another 'let's get drunk and claim pride in something we really know nothing about' day coming up. Can't wait for the pictures. Personally, I plan on staying off of the road that day.
*It being 'Chris Brown and Rihanna's domestic violence situation btw.....
I'mma say it again but now more bluntly since it is a dude who is 'the victim' this time. Chris Rhi...
It won't sound as insensitive I suppose.
I told ya'll this shit happens more than you think. Be prepared to HEAR ABOUT IT FROM ALL SIDES NOW. Now I am sure that some of you will maintain your 'stiff' stance that nothing should happen to the weaker of the two sexes solely based on that so I ain't here to change your minds. Just know that more than one scenario for DMV exists. It isn't always the scenario presented in the movies.
Don't let the backlash from the other incident 'cloud' your judgment in this case though. Wait to see what is said. This case is a lil more SEVERE (weapons involved) but finding out a 'backstory' MAY make it more clear as to why she did what she did. You JUST NEVER KNOW. Just because you have never been through it or KNOW ANYONE WHO HAS doesn't mean the shit doesn't exist. Step outta the bubble people. Oh and 'talk' to your damm spouse. Don't hit 'em! Take a minute if shit gets heated. It helps. You don't have to take it overboard like Oprah and them say and spend 'DAYS APART'. Just take some time. You know you are a 'hot head'? Do what you can to WALK AWAY. If your man/girl IS A HOT HEAD, STAY THE FUCK OUTTA THEIR FACE UNTIL THEY CALM DOWN. It isn't rocket science. Shit. Just because YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY/DO/GET ACROSS doesn't mean that IT IS THE RIGHT TIME FOR YOU TO EXPRESS. It isn't ALWAYS ABOUT YOU DAMMIT. Shit. Take some time people. Take some time. Table the 'discussion' and then come back to it if it gets that heated.
TAMPA, Fla. -- Authorities say the girlfriend of Tampa Bay Buccaneers linebacker Geno Hayes stabbed him in the head and in the neck.
Hayes A Hillsborough County Sheriff's spokeswoman says Hayes was taken to a hospital by a friend Saturday. The 21-year-old former Florida State player was treated and later released.
Deputies arrested 19-year-old Shevelle Bagley on Saturday afternoon. The sheriff's spokeswoman says Hayes and Bagley got into an argument, which led to Bagley grabbing a pair of scissors and stabbing Hayes in the head. He managed to get the scissors away from her, but authorities say she then grabbed a knife and stabbed him in the neck.
Bagley was charged with aggravated battery with a deadly weapon. Jail records show she was released Sunday on $25,000 bail.
I told ya'll this shit happens more than you think. Be prepared to HEAR ABOUT IT FROM ALL SIDES NOW. Now I am sure that some of you will maintain your 'stiff' stance that nothing should happen to the weaker of the two sexes solely based on that so I ain't here to change your minds. Just know that more than one scenario for DMV exists. It isn't always the scenario presented in the movies.
Don't let the backlash from the other incident 'cloud' your judgment in this case though. Wait to see what is said. This case is a lil more SEVERE (weapons involved) but finding out a 'backstory' MAY make it more clear as to why she did what she did. You JUST NEVER KNOW. Just because you have never been through it or KNOW ANYONE WHO HAS doesn't mean the shit doesn't exist. Step outta the bubble people. Oh and 'talk' to your damm spouse. Don't hit 'em! Take a minute if shit gets heated. It helps. You don't have to take it overboard like Oprah and them say and spend 'DAYS APART'. Just take some time. You know you are a 'hot head'? Do what you can to WALK AWAY. If your man/girl IS A HOT HEAD, STAY THE FUCK OUTTA THEIR FACE UNTIL THEY CALM DOWN. It isn't rocket science. Shit. Just because YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY/DO/GET ACROSS doesn't mean that IT IS THE RIGHT TIME FOR YOU TO EXPRESS. It isn't ALWAYS ABOUT YOU DAMMIT. Shit. Take some time people. Take some time. Table the 'discussion' and then come back to it if it gets that heated.
Bucs' LB Hayes stabbed by girlfriend
Deputies arrested 19-year-old Shevelle Bagley on Saturday afternoon. The sheriff's spokeswoman says Hayes and Bagley got into an argument, which led to Bagley grabbing a pair of scissors and stabbing Hayes in the head. He managed to get the scissors away from her, but authorities say she then grabbed a knife and stabbed him in the neck.
Bagley was charged with aggravated battery with a deadly weapon. Jail records show she was released Sunday on $25,000 bail.
