Pictures are here if you don't believe me.
It is ultimately their business as to whether they choose to date or not. What you or I think about it really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. They are celebrities so unfortunately we ALL KNOW that it happened and most of us will continue to judge the situation from a distance. Not knowing the full story. Not really having any clue of what it is like to even be in the situation, making snarky comments, jumping to conclusions and just basically making claims of outrage and disappointments.
I just hope that they are both being advised and counseled well and that NOW THEY WILL CARRY ON THE RELATIONSHIP like a normal one should. With titles of some sort, known boundaries. and NO HITTING/VERBAL/MENTAL ABUSE. On ANYONE PARTS. 'Cause those are ALL the real issues behind the shit they are going through.
One thing I will say is that they ARE NOT ALONE. I agree with many of you there. They are tons of people dealing with this and I wish them all the best. But what I won't do is sit back and judge them, ESPECIALLY IF I DON'T KNOW THE FACTS OF THE SITUATION INTIMATELY. Unlike some of you. I also know that while most victims blame themselves and that is why they go back. I also know that if you love someone and you know that you are the cause (you pick at the person, you mentally abuse them, you HIT TOO) that sometimes people can work through it. My 'true life' story started off with the words "eventual husband" remember? That wasn't their last fight but I will tell you what. They both 'learned' how to argue do to that VERY UNFORTUNATE incident . She learned to keep her hands to herself and when to walk away. He learned to not argue with her like a stranger in the street and that she has some anger issues of her own. They (gasp) got BETTER AT MAINTAINING the relationship and went on to do be 'normal'. (No relationship is perfect so I won't use the word fine or anything). So it can be done. That is just one of the many examples that I have that have worked out. I do have some that didn't and the parties parted ways but not without learning the 'do's and don'ts' of a relationship which included accepting responsibility for your own actions.
I hope that these two do get it together. They need not get married for me personally to consider it okay. They need just learn how to treat each other better and how not to let things get to the point that they got to on that L.A street almost a month ago. That's all. I don't know whether this public incident will serve as the 'therapy' that they need or not. That is not my OR YOUR CALL though. I think that we should just pray for them and support them. Not condemn them or their decision to keep seeing each other. Definitely no need to put all that pressure on her to become some sort of spokesperson nor to boycott music and the like. That is overkill to me.