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Via @NFLGoodWitch... National Football League and Players AssociationDear Rob Littal: I Hope Men Treat Your Daughters Better Than This

Player Perspective | News on the NFL – National Football League and Players AssociationDear Rob Littal: I Hope Men Treat Your Daughters Better Than This

It is a swipe...I know her....I just thought it was a good read. Enjoy it...


This whole week, lots of women in sports media have been talking about the vicious things written about the writer Jennifer Gish after she posted a column on the Bills that apparently caused SEVERE EMOTIONAL DAMAGE to some of the male fans that frequent the Times Union.
Gish was told that she was fat and ugly and as a woman knows nothing about sports. Gish’s column that got fans riled up made little sense to me, but I’ve met lots of fat ugly women who know sports so the insults leveled at her were irrelevant.
Unfortunately, these are the typical things that silly ass sexists drag out to discredit women.
I had a similar experience myself last week when I tweeted that Rob Littal was a HUGE LIAR which makes his site Black Sports Online not credible (I stand by my comment).
In response to my tweet, Littal decided to prove how credible his site was by making up lies about me, sending me a string of about 30 tearful tweets that were almost as pitiful as his typo-ridden grammatically-challenged writing.
Since Rob told me to “know my role” I submitted like a good little woman should while he threw his childish hysterical fuckfaced fit. Yes, I’m usually a goon, but what’s a goon to a psycho? Besides, that’s what I have a blog for. ^_^ << happy face
Not only did Littal make up lies about me, he made up lies about the athletes he is upposed to be CREDIBLY covering (AS USUAL).

Rob Littal is a liar, who would have guessed?

I won't post his entire ugly rant, but you get the point. What a fuckfaced loser.
For the record, I’m pretty sure Vikings Visanthe Shiancoe and Cardinals Darnell Dockett wouldn’t want some gossip blogger with hurt feelings trying to ruin their relationships with the women in their lives for the sake of throwing a fabricated tantrum on twitter. And for the second part of the record, I may not know anything about the NFL, but try finding ANYTHING game-related on Rob’s gossip site. GOOD LUCK!
I’m not whining about what happened cause I don’t care what some fat lying pathetic gossiping cunt with chicklet teeth who would sell his fucking soul for an ad dollar like Rob Littal writes about me. (Speaking of cunt, that’s what Maggie Hendricks was called by UFC’s Joe Rogan when her writing sent him into an emotional tizzy.Why.are.these.men.so.sensitive).
My point is, I don’t know what it is about the internet and womens’ opinions that makes grown men forget that there are women in their lives they presumably love and wouldn’t want to be verbally abused or bullied online, much less lied about.
As you can see from the photos, while Rob Littal was tweeting all those filthy things to me, his beautiful smiling little daughter was right there in his profile picture not easily forgotten. Some father he must be!
I hope no one ever treats her that way. A little girl should be able to grow up and tell a fucking sexist moron like Rob that his site sucks monkey balls without being called the fat groupie of the century with not a lick of proof to support it. Let’s stick to the subject fellas. It’s “okay” to say I don’t know shit. It’s not okay to make up things about who I’m fucking, DMing etc. This should be obvious to anyone over the age of 8.
I’m sure Rob will dredge up more lies and cry more tears about what I’ve written here, probably photoshop a photo of mine or two, but one thing I do ask Rob…as you commit more libel against me, do the honorable thing and give a sista a link back! There’s no doubt your lying ass site is popular, help me get some traffic too.
To Rob’s credit, he spews his filth with a photo unlike so many anonymous commenters on the web. Kudos to him? I guess?
Don’t worry, I’m not getting mushy. Next post will be on the Eagles defense (if you think I know anything about the NFL you should read it. It’s really good!)
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(Live streaming video) @CP3's Charity game.. Courtesy @TakeAsheet ft. @KingJames, @CarmeloAnthony, @D_West30 @KDTrey5....

John Wall, Steph Curry and many more...UPDATE: I have some highlights now...









If it is recorded, I will put up the embed for later viewing. I don't know if it will be though....
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Twitter 2 X Chromosome of the Week- @ashleycmsalazar ...










































I mean there is so much I could say about this person. She is an MMA fighter. A UNITED STATES MILITARY VETERAN.  She is a photographer. She has Playboy's 'attention' (Read: It is only a matter of time before they feature her. Watch.) She has been featured in countless magazines. Still and all, she is pretty damm humble. She could be on Twitter on her bullshit. She is not. Very down to Earth. Did I mention she likes the camera???

Here are the things that most of you inquire about:

Age: 27
Measurements: 34dd-26-36

http://onenakedmodel.com/

http://www.ashley-salazar.com
http://www.modelmayhem.com/777451

When I tell you she has TONS OF PICS....PLEASE BELIEVE ME. I mean she LOVES THE CAMERA. And it loves her.

Now before you scroll down any further, I must warn you. Normally I 'redirect' pictures to the Tumblr. I made this post on a SATURDAY just so that I wouldn't have to 'worry' about that. I mean if you are at work though and they frown up on you looking at 'lady parts' at work, just bookmark the page and save it for later. If not, go ahead and scroll down. I mean I said she had PLAYBOY'S ATTENTION didn't I? You'd think you would take the hint. lol 







Oh and if you like what you see, go vote for her here...She'd greatly appreciate it...

http://entertaindmv.com/2011/10/01/vote-for-our-model-of-the-month/









If you go to her sites, you will see these are 'accidental' photos..




































Ashley Dancing in the Dark from Ashley Salazar on Vimeo.




Ashley Salazar in Hollywood, CA from Ashley Salazar on Vimeo.


Ashley Salazar on set with Hot Damn Designs from Ashley Salazar on Vimeo.






She has so much material that I HAVEN'T EVEN GONE THROUGH MOST OF IT. But I am having fun trying.....Get to know her...


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(Album release party) #CMG @therealbluchip & @jonconnor302...At the Mojo..10/13/11










































Make sure you come out if you are in the area....


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(Beats) From the homie @LosoDaBeatman .... His beat credits are below...

Mel love, Young Chief, Wacka Flocka , Frenchie1017 , Diggy Simmons , Lil Twist , Reed Dollaz , Younghot, QuillyMillz and more... All of you rappers/singers that follow the blog need to come see the man about his craft.

  No Beef by LosoDaBeatman


  KILLER by LosoDaBeatman

  What It Is ! by LosoDaBeatman
  KILL SWITCH Prdby Losoondhabeatt by LosoDaBeatman

  Life Is A Dream by LosoDaBeatman

  StoryToTell-Prd LosoBeats by LosoDaBeatman


I really like this last joint. They are all pretty good but that last one resonates with me. Big beat. Breakdowns for a rap...If the girl (or dude) had a strong voice....radio hit. All over it.
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(Words) How 'getting back to normal' is going.....In regards to My Father's death..

























Oh if you are a 'new' follower, start here... http://thewarehous.blogspot.com/2011/06/moijust-few-words-on-this-fathers-day.html    Then the post will make more sense to you. It won't be the last of it's type. Don't like it? Don't read 'em. It is that simple. I will be blunt though, if you have ANY SEMBLANCE OF COMMON SENSE, you will figure it out though.




It is going. I mean I would almost say I am 'back' but as I have been told by others that have been through it, 'back' will be relative. I have also been told I have 'changed'. I won't argue with that. At all.

I think his death, his purpose and the things that he taught me have made an already outspoken person such as myself EVEN THAT MUCH MORE SO. Knowing that he isn't here to spread the message makes me want to do it even more. So with that 'want' is what is keeping me in close contact with folks. "Cause my first instinct is to look within and close things up. I take care of myself for the most part. I don't ask or lean on folks like that. If I do that though, I won't be able to do any good in this World. All my ideas and thoughts will be stifled and bottled up. So I press on and decided AGAINST being selfish and holing up like some recluse. He would probably be PISSED AS HELL WITH ME IF I DID THAT ANYWAY. I can here him cussing me out right now for that:




"Boy, what in the good Hell is wrong with you? I ain't coming back. Now get off your ass and do what I taught you. Act like you got a set of balls between your legs and be a man. Go take care of your Mother and my damm Grandchildren...." 


And that is the tame version.... of what he would say. If you know him, you know that..







Do I question 'why'? @ it being his time to go. No. Not because of his age either. Maybe it is my faith. I wouldn't give you guys a 'blanket reason' for it though. For that I might as well not mention it. I don't feel the need to question it because like I said to many of you who I do KNOW IN PERSON, I didn't want him here suffering just so I could look at him. I knew the day I walked outta that hospital in Winston-Salem ('Preciate ya'll in the ICU at Baptist Hospital...ya'll are aight with me...I don't care what anyone else says.) through the doctor's entrance that he wasn't coming out of there. I made peace with that. It still hurts though....and I probably won't be able to think about it without it hurting. As it should be in my eyes. That's just how I see it. 


If you TRULY LOVE SOMEONE, you miss them. It hurts to think about them being gone but it also makes you smile at the same time. I know I am not the only one who has lost someone that close to them though so I know there are others that feel that way. You will notice I don't say I feel 'alone in this feeling' because of that. He taught me that early as child. Empathy. I feel some of you are missing that. If I know you, if I could give you some, I would. It is helpful. That is all I am going to say. Some of you have it actually but have put it to use in ALL OF THE WRONG WAYS. I can only hope you don't end up dead behind it. This is an honest place man. It is the truth. I feel that way. I would tell you to your face if you ask me. Trust me. I have done it. I have someone who is in Gander Hill (prison here in Delaware) that telling that to will be ONE OF THE FIRST THINGS I TELL HIM WHEN HE GETS OUT. Not out of spite. But out of 'I actually give a fuck about him and my Dad did too..He knows who he is. I don't have to call his name. Just because I am not out here screaming 'Free him' doesn't mean I don't think or pray for the brother..I don't do shit for show. Sorry.

You see, I can't 'seek revenge' on my Dad's killer. There is no one to 'talk tough to'. There is no one's family to 'threaten with revenge'. There is no 'system to be mad at'. No judge. No jury. No one to hold a grudge against to motivate me to keep going. No haters. Just his memory and the fact that he is gone. I mean I could go around screaming 'Fuck strokes' but what would that accomplish? Exactly....nothing. So all I can do is deal with it. 




THAT IS PROBABLY THE HARDEST PART OF THIS. There is no one to be 'angry' at. Just gotta deal with it. So deal with it I shall..... Like I do everything else that comes my way...

Besides, what is normal? @ getting back to it....
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(Words) The 'We Need To Talk' phone call.......and the need for it to stop...






This is one of those things that I KNOW ONE OF MY ELDERS KNEW but decided to let me find out ON MY OWN. Damm them for that shit. I REALLY WISHED SOMEONE WOULD HAVE TOLD ME just how SELFISH the concept really is.


Some of you think it is considerate. It is considerate to WHOM? What makes it considerate? I mean if you call putting someone's mind on mental Rolodex for hours on end, trying to desperately figure out if you are about to 'leave them', if you are terminally ill, or if something else catastrophic has taken place considerate PLEASE DON'T DO ME ANY FAVORS. That shit isn't considerate. It is torture. Just pull the bandaid off man. 


I do it because I care and want to soften the blow- You. 

I question how much you REALLY CARE ABOUT THEM and whether this about them or YOU! You see, most of the time when folks say 'We Have To Talk', they have fucked up somewhere along the line. They are at fault. Not ALL THE TIME. Just sometimes. So this one is for you. Put your big boy pants/big girl panties on and face the music. Shit is clearly not going anywhere so you are gonna have to deal with it anyway. If it isn't YOUR FAULT, you still have to face it so my stance still stands. Matter of fact, the fact that you KNOW THERE IS A NEED TO TALK makes you just as culpable from THAT POINT ON. That's what grown ups do. Handle their shit. In a timely fashion. Not whine and bitch their way outta issues on some 'Well you didn't see it so it REALLY ISN'T MY FAULT...' Another post another time though..I digress...


I mean what kind of person hits someone in the A.M with this shit, doesn't tell them WHAT IT IS THAT IS THE PROBLEM and leaves them to sit mull over ALL THE FUCKED UP THINGS THAT THE 'TALK' COULD BE ABOUT? Then have the nerve to get 'upset' at that person for 'making up scenarios' in their head all day and being PISSED by the time it is time to talk. smh. 

Then you wonder you are running into Sobbing Keisha or TimeBomb Tommy by the time the 'talk' takes place. It is YOUR OWN FAULT. You set that series of events in motion. People don't think though. Well....they think about themselves. Somehow, by telling folks that 'We Need To Talk', folks have made themselves feel better about delivering fucked up news. Newsflash: 


FUCKED UP NEWS IS FUCKED UP NEWS....FOLKS ARE GOING TO REACT HOW THEY ARE GOING TO REACT. At least that is how I see it. Everything else is theatrics. Cats 'snapping' and acting a fool were going to do so anyway. At least with certain folks...** Stop giving them excuses to by coddling them with 'a heads up'. You are ruining it for anyone else who has to deal with them. You don't know how many 'adults' I have ran into that have struck the fear of God in folks 'cause people 'know'/feel' they don't 'handle news very well. It is because you IDIOTS HAVE MADE IT ACCEPTABLE FOR THEM TO ACT AN ASS. Give 'em the news and stop setting mundane news like you are getting ready to tell a nigga he is gonna die. Making preparations and shit. Going outta your way. I know....


....I am 'one of those folks' that people feel that way about due to HEREDITY. Man look, I'm gonna react how I am gonna react. If you call me and tell me that 'that thing you were supposed to do for me' fell through, depending on WHO YOU ARE, I PROBABLY PLANNED ON YOU SCREWING IT UP ANYWAY. Very few of you have to worry about me being 'disappointed' to the point that I would snap out on you.

If it is about my kids, I am going to TAKE CARE OF WHATEVER IT IS THAT NEEDS TO BE TAKEN CARE OF. I don't have TIME TO BE OUT HERE 'SNAPPING' AND ACTING NIGGERISH 'CAUSE IT 'SHOWS OTHERS THAT I CARE'. Hell is that gonna do? Oh I get it, it is gonna increase my rep.....MAN FUCK MY REP. THESE ARE MY KIDS. Only folks I care about caring about my 'rep' is THEM AS IT PERTAINS TO THAT SITUATION. That's it. I could give a shit about showing out for 'my folks' or for some no name nigga on Twitter/Facebook/whoever gets wind of the story so I can have 'their respect' or so they can say 'That's exactly how I would handle it.' I mean that is cool and all but that is not what I am out here trying to be about. Good luck to those of you out here worried about that though. 


How can I say this? 'Cause I have some COTDAMM SENSE. That's why. Do you know how much BULLSHIT I AM NOT TOLD because everyone thinks I will 'Walt out'* on 'em? It is sad. I get told MORE STUFF LAST then I should because of that. I HATE IT. So that is my personal reason for speaking on this. I have seen others get treated this way and unfortunately THEY DON'T HAVE THE SENSE GOD GAVE 'EM and folks DON'T TELL THEM THINGS. Shooting folks...beating up folks....just acting a complete nut because 'folks expect them to' and then said folks are left looking around like 'Why does he/she act that way?" It is partly your fault for coddling them. If they want to act an ass, let 'em. Eventually they will get tired of breaking their own shit, getting arrested for being a hothead or whatever other consequences are the direct result of that shit. Again, as a person who was labeled like that, I will tell you it is possible. If they don't, oh well. You can't save everybody. Put your cape away and move on. Plus, you are giving folks a 'pass to act a fool'. Why would you do that? Just tell 'em.




This must come to an end people. Yes, at times you 'have to set a tone' for a conversation. That's cool. You don't have to set it FOUR TO FIVE HOURS IN ADVANCE THOUGH. Stop being extra and shit. Act like an adult for once.- Jay-Z. You are setting yourselves up to fail with this method. If you have something to talk to someone about and it isn't going to happen in say..THE NEXT TEN MINUTES.....just don't SAY SHIT UNTIL YOU CAN ACTUALLY TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT. Whatever their reaction was going to be isn't going to change because you 'gave them a heads up'. You aren't doing them any favors and if you are having a 'talk' about some shit either you did or they did, 'making them sweat about it all day' is pretty much asking to argue with a powder keg.


Man up...sack up...act like you have a set of nuts (woman up..ovary up....whatever) and just say what you have to say when you see the person.....







*My Dad's Dad. Who in turn my Dad was JUST LIKE...who in turn I am just....well you get the point. Sorta. The point was for me to be JUST LIKE THEM BUT THE IMPROVED MODEL. Ya dig? So I've tried to evolve. "Cause no one REALLY DEMANDED THAT OF THEM like my Dad did of me in his subtle ways..

I mean I WON'T ACT LIKE I HAVE THE BEST REACTIONS TO CERTAIN THINGS BUT DAMM..I like to think I am pretty rational. I just don't play around when it is time to take action and maybe that is what folks see. I don't 'hold back'. I won't use the 'cliche' but yeah. 100% is what you are going to get when it involves ME and my reactions are swift, severe and WELL THOUGHT OUT. 


** Ever notice that folks who are 'crazy' like that seem to KNOW WHO TO ACT LIKE THAT WITH. Yeah..there are a few folks in the World who snap regardless but most folks KNOW WHO TO ACT LIKE THAT WITH and who gets 'excited' when they go into their 'He-Man/She Ra' act. That shit actually doesn't work on some folks. Hats off to those folks who don't let that shit deter them from giving it to 'em STRAIGHT and like an adult. Who actually can and will control that ass if they want to go ahead and 'act out over whatever is going on'. I salute you if no one else does. Regardless of your occupation.
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  https://awidowedfatherof3.blogspot.com/ I wish I had been in the right mindframe to make this blog when it happened but I didn't.  The...