Something else I wrote somewhere else..

Only this time the unedited version. (For those of you who have seen this, IT REALLY WAS AIMED AT SOME PEOPLE and I was trying to be nice. I probably won't be here.)

I love helping people. I really really really do. If I have info to give , I share it with everyone. I even do it sometimes to a fault. What I don't do ,on purpose anyway, is over step my bounds. I put the info out there and allow people to do with it what they will. You can't force information on people and sometimes, you are not telling someone something that they don't already know. Now if they ask you, BY ALL MEANS, give it to with both barrels. But if they don't and it is causing a problem, it is best to just let it be.

All you can do is put the information out there. The rest is up to the people you put it to do with it what they please.

Kinda like I am doing with this note.

Let's see what is done with the information I have put in this note. 'Cause there is a MESSAGE in it for someone. Several someones actually. But it isn't my place 'to come to you and say it' straight out and I am going to FOLLOW MY OWN RULES. That is someone else's job to do. I am only in it 'cause I heard about it. Understand this isn't the first time I heard this shit either or had to come at you about this personally. Remember?

Let me tell you what the hell it is YOU CAN'T DO though. You can't go running around like a pack of wolves, trying to reform the opposite sex with your 'truths'. This ain't no Tyler Perry movie. Some damm Zane book. Fuck you think this is? Furthermore, what KINDA REACTION DO YOU THINK YOU ARE GONNA GET running up on people in the streets about their relationship? Huh? A good one? A "Oh yeah you are rightt!"? Yeah okay. Your whole approach is wrong. Period. More flies with honey people. More flies with honey. Fucks you keep setting the vinegar out for? You see it ain't working don't you? Come on man.

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It's SPRING AGAIN!!

Even though my young boy Steph didn't make the 'Big Dance', you know I had to peep out his performance in the NIT. You see he did the thing to South Carolina with 32 pts.





Mr. Archie did have a helluva highlight though.

Tory Holt is FREE. Now come our way fam. We could use you in the slot. @ Pittsburgh.

What is New England doing up there? Trying to build an All Madden Team? @ looking at Peppers. Yeesh!



It is has been on for a hot minute now so I feel like I can post up some of the clips from Jimmy's show. lol


To me, this is still Jimmy Fallon's best interview thus far.



But Cameron broke him DOWN here.



Slow jamming the news...Questo, Riq and 'em did the thing here..



If you know me like that YOU KNOW THIS WAS THE HIGHLIGHT FOR ME. Princess K, Khloe and Kourtney. Khloe is trying to make a run at being hot like her sisters I see. She finally got rid of that blunt bang..

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(Words) Lane Kiflin, Pumping gas, Chris Brown and Rihanna and other musings...

So back in the days as Al Davis's whipping boy, EVERYONE FELT SO SORRY FOR POOR LANE KIFFIN. Now in his present position, ole Lane is making Al look like he might have been on to something.

Now, I have used the statement that Lane used (allegedly) about 'pumping gas' myself to motivate those around me. So the statement itself is not really that big of a deal to me. You don't make the right decision and yes, you just might end up doing nothing more than 'pumping gas in the middle of nowhere' or the other ole cliche' 'flipping burgers'. No problem. But what YOU CAN'T DO AS A PERSON IN LANE'S POSITION is, attach names of institutions to the statement or say it to a recruit. Maybe after they get into your 'fold' you can pop trash but not then. Not like he did. To boot, he said it to a program whose coach WILL REMEMBER that and use it as bulletin board material. Lane better hope that not ONE OF HIS KIDS EVER ENDS UP PUMPING GAS after leaving his programs (he will get fired/let go/whatever just like in Oakland at some point. They all do) He will NEVER HEAR THE END OF IT. lol

Free Tory Holt! You let Orlando Pace go. Go ahead and release Tory too.

Now it is a 'teaching moment.'?* Here we go again putting undue pressure on two people who still need help. It is a 'helping moment' for them. Are we going to help them? Well HARPO? I mean, I imagine that at some point, when this all blows over, they will come on the show. At least I hope so. I can only hope that it is an 'even' show. That's all that I ask.


Another 'let's get drunk and claim pride in something we really know nothing about' day coming up. Can't wait for the pictures. Personally, I plan on staying off of the road that day.






*It being 'Chris Brown and Rihanna's domestic violence situation btw.....

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I'mma say it again but now more bluntly since it is a dude who is 'the victim' this time. Chris Rhi...

 It won't sound as insensitive I suppose.


I told ya'll this shit happens more than you think. Be prepared to HEAR ABOUT IT FROM ALL SIDES NOW. Now I am sure that some of you will maintain your 'stiff' stance that nothing should happen to the weaker of the two sexes solely based on that so I ain't here to change your minds. Just know that more than one scenario for DMV exists. It isn't always the scenario presented in the movies.




Don't let the backlash from the other incident 'cloud' your judgment in this case though. Wait to see what is said. This case is a lil more SEVERE (weapons involved) but finding out a 'backstory' MAY make it more clear as to why she did what she did. You JUST NEVER KNOW. Just because you have never been through it or KNOW ANYONE WHO HAS doesn't mean the shit doesn't exist. Step outta the bubble people. Oh and 'talk' to your damm spouse. Don't hit 'em! Take a minute if shit gets heated. It helps. You don't have to take it overboard like Oprah and them say and spend 'DAYS APART'. Just take some time. You know you are a 'hot head'? Do what you can to WALK AWAY. If your man/girl IS A HOT HEAD, STAY THE FUCK OUTTA THEIR FACE UNTIL THEY CALM DOWN. It isn't rocket science. Shit. Just because YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY/DO/GET ACROSS doesn't mean that IT IS THE RIGHT TIME FOR YOU TO EXPRESS. It isn't ALWAYS ABOUT YOU DAMMIT. Shit. Take some time people. Take some time. Table the 'discussion' and then come back to it if it gets that heated.

Bucs' LB Hayes stabbed by girlfriend

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Associated Press

TAMPA, Fla. -- Authorities say the girlfriend of Tampa Bay Buccaneers linebacker Geno Hayes stabbed him in the head and in the neck.

Hayes

A Hillsborough County Sheriff's spokeswoman says Hayes was taken to a hospital by a friend Saturday. The 21-year-old former Florida State player was treated and later released.
Deputies arrested 19-year-old Shevelle Bagley on Saturday afternoon. The sheriff's spokeswoman says Hayes and Bagley got into an argument, which led to Bagley grabbing a pair of scissors and stabbing Hayes in the head. He managed to get the scissors away from her, but authorities say she then grabbed a knife and stabbed him in the neck.
Bagley was charged with aggravated battery with a deadly weapon. Jail records show she was released Sunday on $25,000 bail.

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Melanie Fiona..I am looking all over for stuff by her...If you can help, hit me up!

I need some info on her ASAP. That's all. Links. Music. Bio. All of that. I do have pictures so I am not as interested in those. It is my understanding that she used to go by the name of 'Syren'. Any and all info would be appreciated.

http://www.mediafire.com/?fo0mmd2mnqe Here is the song that got me onto her. Give It To Me Right.

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There are lessons to be learned from this link..

I will come back later to expound.

For now, just read it. Ignore the 'D' word she is using (as that is her situation but it doesn't have to be YOURS) and take the lesson outta what she is saying dammit.

Reese Witherspoon in ELLE: Humiliated by divorce and operating on fear

ELLE

Reese Witherspoon is the blonde who has shattered stereotypes with roles as a wary prude in “Cruel Intentions, “a high school over-achiever in “Election,” a sorority girl at Harvard Law in “Legally Blonde” and a poor child turned ruthless society woman in “Vanity Fair.” Her turn as June Carter Cash in “Walk the Line” earned her a Golden Globe, SAG and Academy Award for best actress. But that doesn’t mean Reese doesn’t have her flaws and weaknesses like everyone else. When it comes to her painful divorce from Ryan Phillippe, accusations of being a control freak or seeing her own face on the cover of tabloids, Witherspoon confesses to ELLE how painful and lonely life can be on the other side of the camera.

On her divorce: “Very humiliating and very isolating…But, by the way, if it’s not painful, maybe it wasn’t the right decision to marry to begin with. Those are the appropriate emotions. When people get in your face and say, ‘This will pass,’ you think, Are they crazy? I’m never gonna feel any better than I feel right this minute and nothing’s ever gonna make sense again. And I still have moments where I’m like, Nothings ever gonna make sense again.” 
 


On dealing with the split: “You see a lot of people play this blame game. Blame, blame, blame. You know? And it’s a really easy thing to do, and I’m certainly guilty of it. [You have to] look at yourself and go, ‘What part of this do I need to own? Which part of this is my responsibility? And that’s the painful work that you have to go through to hopefully get some real life knowledge out of it.”

Carter Smith for ELLE

On being a young mother: “When I first had Ava, I couldn’t afford [help]. And it was so hard. I was out in Los Angeles, living [away from my family]. I really didn’t have any friends. And I had a baby. No one else who was 22 had a baby. I couldn’t go out.” 
 


On her reported Type A personality: “I don’t think I’m a control freak. I think I’m just fearful. I operate from a lot of fear, like, of things being lost or forgotten or neglected. Losing the spiritual rather than the physical. It’s so funny to me that somehow I’ve been portrayed as a very, like, closed-off or uptight person. I’m very open.” 
 


On the paparazzi: “Fascination is gonna die off. I honestly know it. But it’s just like I keep waiting and waiting, and then it’s just more tabloid magazines, and it keeps going. I don’t take a shower everyday. I don’t put on makeup everyday. I wear a lot of sunglasses, in case you noticed.”

But it’s not all work and no play for Ms. Witherspoon!

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